I’m a curious guy. But of all questions I can ask, there is one specific question I often ask to people. It’s a question that sometimes leads to a clear answer, but very often the person I’m asking the question didn’t even think about it. Sometimes, I catch myself not being able to answer: Why do you do what you do?
Sometimes when I talk about personal development to a group of people, to a friend or a relative, I get the question: “Why would I make a conscious effort to aim for my highest potential?”
I gave this a good thought, especially because I like to know what moves people to do or not do certain things. First of all, it is important to know that personal development only works when you are actually willing to experience it and to put effort into it. There are plenty of excuses why you would not aim for your highest potential. If you are happy and satisfied under the current circumstances and feel at ease with yourself, I would still encourage but certainly not urge you to extensively focus on personal development. It simply doesn’t work under pressure.
But if you are open-minded towards bringing yourself to a higher level, conscious personal development – we all develop ourselves unconsciously, all the time – can pay off instantly. By consciously aiming for your highest potential, you will likely find out that you are capable of much more than you thought. You will start turning dreams you’ve never thought could become reality into concrete plans, and achieve goals easier, while enjoying it more. Achieving goals also gives satisfaction and positive energy. And finally, aiming for your highest potential is life isn’t much different from what professional sportsmen and -women do. By trial and error, as well as by training yourself you become better at what you’re doing, making life even easier. Eventually, it is likely to make you a happier person.
Remember you don’t have to reach the top of the ladder right away! Every attempt to do so starts with a first step. Make that step today, no matter how small it is!
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“By trial and error, as well as by training yourself you become better at what you’re doing, making life even easier.”
Aiming for our highest potential is definitely the only way to live a fulfilling life.
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Good question, Mr. Curious :)
It’s us who decide where our ceiling is. And one day it may seem you’ve reached it. However, sometimes our thoughts just can’t embrace all richness of life – there’s always something else to do, feel, experience, etc.
Going upstairs does make you feel positive (hence, could well be added to the 3 Ways to Become Happier as the 4th one ;)), and there is never too much happiness, isn’t it? And if you feel there is more than enough, this means you can (and even should) share it with the others. So it will be of use anyway!
But to make the development work, besides the will and effort which you’ve mentioned, there should be a clear goal. Only then efforts bring joy and satisfaction.