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		<title>By: Kathy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 10:34:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ALLOWING yourself to dream... That&#039;s the point where many of us are stuck. And the reason is that, either we are afraid it can&#039;t come true, or, what&#039;s quite serious, to my mind, we think &#039;we don&#039;t DESERVE it&#039;... 

That&#039;s where I try to return my mind to the childhood, where everyone&#039;s dreams are absolutely free. Where we have no fears, as we are not aware of any limitations (and if we are, we instantly invent a magic way to overcome them :)). Where we deeply believe that the whole world belongs to us - this is something as natural as breathing. And THIS is true ;) I&#039;m sure this faith still lives within our souls, as we are still the same people - well, maybe not so wise as when we were kids ;)

There&#039;s one more stucking thing, as I&#039;ve noticed - the fear that the dream CAN come true. People are afraid of fundamental changes of their lives, or that they will have nothing more so big to dream of, or that they won&#039;t be capable to keep that wonder in their lives. 

I think I&#039;ve answered myself to the first two questions. 

a. If you didn&#039;t want big changes, you would be satisfied with what you have. If you dream, that means you have the need to introduce something new into your life. New things are always scary, it seems more COMFORTABLE to stay where you are, but without trying you won&#039;t know which wonders life has prepared for you ;) And, I believe, nothing good that we have can actually leave our life for ever. This is our experience, our luggage that is always with us. 

b. NOT TRUE :) As fulfilled dreams necessarily lead to more and bigger dreams. As your dreams come true, you get wings, and you can fly higher and higher, and see more and more amazing things around ;)

I haven&#039;t yet found the persuasive argument for the third point yet. But what I think can be close to it, is that the ability to keep the dream come true in our life depends on to what degree we have accepted it. If we have fully let it intp our life, if we are confident that we&#039;ve deserved it and are grateful for it, AND if we don&#039;t let ourselves focus on the fear to lose it, it will stay :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ALLOWING yourself to dream&#8230; That&#8217;s the point where many of us are stuck. And the reason is that, either we are afraid it can&#8217;t come true, or, what&#8217;s quite serious, to my mind, we think &#8216;we don&#8217;t DESERVE it&#8217;&#8230; </p>
<p>That&#8217;s where I try to return my mind to the childhood, where everyone&#8217;s dreams are absolutely free. Where we have no fears, as we are not aware of any limitations (and if we are, we instantly invent a magic way to overcome them :)). Where we deeply believe that the whole world belongs to us &#8211; this is something as natural as breathing. And THIS is true ;) I&#8217;m sure this faith still lives within our souls, as we are still the same people &#8211; well, maybe not so wise as when we were kids ;)</p>
<p>There&#8217;s one more stucking thing, as I&#8217;ve noticed &#8211; the fear that the dream CAN come true. People are afraid of fundamental changes of their lives, or that they will have nothing more so big to dream of, or that they won&#8217;t be capable to keep that wonder in their lives. </p>
<p>I think I&#8217;ve answered myself to the first two questions. </p>
<p>a. If you didn&#8217;t want big changes, you would be satisfied with what you have. If you dream, that means you have the need to introduce something new into your life. New things are always scary, it seems more COMFORTABLE to stay where you are, but without trying you won&#8217;t know which wonders life has prepared for you ;) And, I believe, nothing good that we have can actually leave our life for ever. This is our experience, our luggage that is always with us. </p>
<p>b. NOT TRUE :) As fulfilled dreams necessarily lead to more and bigger dreams. As your dreams come true, you get wings, and you can fly higher and higher, and see more and more amazing things around ;)</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t yet found the persuasive argument for the third point yet. But what I think can be close to it, is that the ability to keep the dream come true in our life depends on to what degree we have accepted it. If we have fully let it intp our life, if we are confident that we&#8217;ve deserved it and are grateful for it, AND if we don&#8217;t let ourselves focus on the fear to lose it, it will stay :)</p>
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		<title>By: Viktor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Viktor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 14:58:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very useful.. thank you very much! I think I give up too quickly, because I&#039;m impatient ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very useful.. thank you very much! I think I give up too quickly, because I&#8217;m impatient ;)</p>
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